The curse of having to be something you're not.
ryushi I think you should walk your own personal path, going back and forth here and there on a road that leads somewhere. Maybe you should try buckwheat noodle making, or bonsai, or guitar. There's a lot to learn and a lot of fun to be had just by joining a community. ---
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